It lies in human nature to be attracted to mysterious things. Mystery tantalizes us, appeals…We want to get to know person better when we don’t know what makes a person tick, what his/her thoughts are, etc. An enigmatic, mysterious stranger is very appealing. Below you will find some tips to remain mysterious and enigmatic to your date.
• When you tell a story, make sure you keep some details for another time
• Don’t bore your co-workers or friends with every opinion of yours
• There is no need to announce all your plans, keep them for yourself for a while
• Make sure your private life is kept private. This side of your life is not open for a discussion with everyone
• Never reply the e-mails or text messages on weekends
• Don’t always call back a person when you have a missed call
• Don’t call people all the time, let them call you
• Keep people guessing
• Ensure your date think he/she is not the only person interested in you
• Break your plans sometimes, not giving detailed explanations
• Never be too available
• Be busy, but don’t provide details about what you are doing
• Use a charming enigmatic smile as your major weapon
• When you meet people, tell you date you are with someone, but don’t go in the details, who you are with
• Never discuss your ex-partners even when you are asked to
• Make people chase you, and don’t do this yourself, unless necessary
• Have different friends, whom you don’t mix together
• Create desire initially rather than trying to catch up in future
• Never be an open book, be your date’s challenge, then your date will be interested to get to know more about you with every new date
Don’t be sad if you cannot follow all these tips at once. Being enigmatic requires time and practice to have things right. When you will feel comfortable not being in constant communication, people would get more curious about your personality and will put their efforts and time to get to know you better. However, stick to moderation, being too mysterious, you can be a difficult target and people will get tired and move on.