Top Things to Make Sure that your Date is Compatible with You
Going on a date, you aim at learning more about the person you date with. Make sure your communication is not only interesting, but informative for you, that you will learn things you want to know about the person. The main question that you need to answer for yourself is how you two are compatible with each other, before moving on to the serious relationship. Following topics will help you to see how compatible the two of you are.
Find a range of topics to discuss: This will give you an idea about the person you date. Discovering similar interests, hobbies, outlooks, likes, dislikes and differences will help you make the analysis of how compatible you are. Taking the situation critically will help you to avoid pitfalls in future.
Family background is crucial in your compatibility contrary to what people think. The differences in your upbringing, education, values, etc. may be too big to bring you apart.
Talking about Ex-relationships will help you two to become comfortable with each other gradually with the developing of your relationship, honesty and trust will make your relationship more solid with time.
Be attentive to any issue If something really bothers you, discuss it right away, early in the relationship, rather than suffer later. The clash of ideologies usually causes lack of compatibility between the partners
Speak on life styles The way you spend your life also affects your compatibility, if you two are from different ‘worlds’, no compatibility is guaranteed and vice versa, if you share a very similar life style, your relationship will only gain from this.
Culture learn your date’s cultural and religious upbringing, as what seems not important for you now can cause problems later; even the smallest habits you don’t admit can turn you mad in future.
Other topics that are interesting and very informative to discuss are: likes and dislikes, motives for different behavior, habits, common goals and plans for future, etc. the topics are really immense, but these are the most common and crucial ones.